Love is quite the opposite in these cases. Though it may seem like an unreasonable liking, you will eventually realize that what attracts you might not necessarily be good, but along with the aspects of your personality, those characters will go perfectly. That is, what matters is not the absolute, but the relative. What appears flawless to you might be perceived as worthless by someone else. Love is about finding a perfect match to your temperament. Also, love does not allow us to be ignorant about our partner’s wrongs. On the contrary, it is something that makes us want to seek and reform those imperfections – together.
The most important test of love is its strength. Love must pass the test of time. Something that vanishes in a month or a year is nothing more than an infatuation. Love must endure occasional pangs of jealousy. Even the truest and most trusting of lovers can become suspicious at times. The reason behind this is that a true lover will always consider his/her partner as more desirable than any other person in the world and this can sometimes make them be uncertain of other peoples’ intentions towards their partner.
Love is an unblemished emotion while an infatuation is sometimes just lust masquerading as true devotion.
How to be fair in a relationship argument?
1) Avoid speaking at the same time. It can lead to confusion.
2) Don't blame, accuse your partner this will put them on the defensive.
3) Communicate each other's positive qualities
4) Avoid being judgmental
5) Don't try to communicate when a person is in a bad mood
6) Don't expect your partner to guess what you want. Say it yourself
7) Don't save up issues and spring them on your partner when he or she raises an issue with you
8) When you raise an issue, stay focused on that issue until it is resolved.